So I have been meaning to
write this blog for a long time… loooong time. Since about May of 2012. It’s
funny, I have a draft from August and I started with the words “this blog is
WAAAYYY over due…”, haha that was 5 months ago. I guess it is never too late.
Right!?
May of 2012 was a big month
for us, Josh turned the big 3-0. I wanted it to be epic. I wanted it to be a
birthday he would never forget. Josh pretty much felt the complete opposite. He
was dreading turning 30 and was in no way, shape, or form excited about getting
older. So me, being the optimistic person that I am, was even more
determined to make it special, to make it mind blowing.
I knew I was going to throw Josh a surprise party... I had that
planned since about January. But when Josh threw me a surprise party for my
25th birthday (which was EPIC btw), I knew I had to switch it up. I had to
do something else, something extra special. I actually came up with the idea at
work with some help from one of my clients. Our ideas quickly grew into
something that I think was borderline genius (if I do say so myself J).
Enter 30 surprises for 30 days. Not really much to explain… I gave Josh a
surprise everyday for 30 days leading up to his 30th birthday. Now
that I had the plan, I had to come up with the 30 surprises. This was a little
more challenging than I expected. Coming up with 20 surprises wasn’t too bad
but I had to get creative with the last 10. This is how I did it.
30 surprises for 30
days:
Set a budget:
Super important. My husband and I set a budget every month for every penny that
we spend. So it is no different for birthdays. I got the same budget that he
had for my birthday… it has been so long since I did this but I think my budget
was around $400.
pick out cards: I am addicted to cards. I will
stand in the card section for 45 mins and not even feel bad. My plan was to
have a card set out every day on the table for Josh to open and read what his
surprise would be. I found the perfect set of cards (set of 50… enough for
mistakes!) at TJMaxx and I made the numbers on my computer that I glued to the
front of the envelope.
write everthing down: I kept track of everything I bought and everything I had planned in one notebook. I kept a running total of where I was with the budget so I knew I wouldn’t go over. I would write down ideas I had for surprises. This helped tremendously. I would have been so lost and confused without my notebook.
set the plan into action: Lay the first card wherever you think the person will find it. I would put it on the corner of the table everyday. The first card explained what he could expect over the next 30 days. It was so much FUN! Josh was excited to read his card everyday. I was SO excited for each and every surprise I gave him… even though some of them were small, I put a ton of thought into each and every surprise.
A list of some of the surprises: I can’t
remember all of them!
-Starbucks
coffee mug
-Gatorade
water bottle
-Nike
dri-fit t-shirt
-Coupon
book (back massage, wife cooks dinner, watch what you want on TV…)
-Night
of ME playing video games with HIM (this was funny!)
-Baseball
tickets to the Tides
-Avett
Brothers tickets (this was my favorite!)
-Double
dates with good friends
-May
Day basket (South Dakota tradition)
-‘30
reasons I love you’ letter
-Best
friend coming into town from NC (he helped with the surprise party)
-Surprise
birthday party (thrown a week before his actual birthday)
**I
will try to add more if I can remember them… my memory is TERRIBLE**
Avett Brothers Concert |
Surprise Party |
Some
surprises were big. Some were small. Most were things he said he had wanted at
some point. Ladies, when your man says he likes something, write it down and
buy it for him later! It means more than you will ever know J This was so much fun and I
think it will always be remembered.